饮水思源

我有个问题：是否每个人有了新家庭后都会为了新家庭的未来而忽略了养育他长大的家庭呢？当我们在自私的时候，可不可以想想那旧家庭在我们成长时给了我们多少东西，为了我们付出了多少。当下我们的确是要为了未来铺路，但千万不要忘记扶养我们出身的家庭，因为你的也会有这样的一天。试想想，如果你儿子为了自己的未来，而忽略你，你有何感受？要记得你有得自私是因为他还在保护你，怕你受苦，但自己的苦却不敢跟你讲。你所有的东西是他为你带来的，不是天掉下来的，用自己的辛苦来报答他也是应该的。而且要记得有个人已经帮你负起着责任十年有多了，请不要在依赖她了，因为她也有自己的未来， 她以牺牲十年来帮你，现在你还要她帮你多久？你的未来是重要，难道她的不重要吗？自己的大便，请自己收拾，而不是以这来作借口，推谢责任，这全是你自己拿来的。有多少风流，有多少悲哀，不是继续风流。不要为自己找借口，每个人都有痛苦，不是你一人。

How to play game with friends!

Yesterday, i went to cycling with some of kakinan members. after that, we went to a canteen to take dinner. one of the member said they went to KFC in alor setar last day. they order a lot of foods and finally they couldn't finish, then they played a game, people who lose have to eat the food.
the game is each of them has to show a number and one of them sum up the number, then find out who is the lucky one. after i heard it, i said then u guys can try to count the numbers from the others before u show your number in order not to be the lucky one. after that, one them said it is not the way to play it, because this is just a game for friends, just for fun no need to play the scheme.
I do agree with her. we shouldn't play scheming within our friends, just enjoy and be sporting even though we lose the game. Winning is important but not in applying on your friends. Scheming could probably makes u lost your friends.